For what??

Satu persoalan yg perlu dititik beratkan sebelum kita memulakan sesuatu is: what for?. apakah tujuannya kita decide nak buat something? tujuan mmg sgt penting to help us accomplish the mission. kalau takde mission, maka takde tujuan. kalau takde tujuan, mengapa perlu buat sesuatu itu? tak ke tu namanye BUANG MASA, or BUANG TEBIAT??
Most ppl buat something bcos it makes them happy. tapi kalau cara tak menghalalkan niat, maka niat dan tujuan itu sudah menjadi tidak halal which eqivalent to dosa dan kemurkaan Allah. So making yourself happy in the wrong way could invite a disasterous future.
think about this: You wouldnt want to ride an unwarranted car for fear of potential road crash. so why dare commiting a sin to reserve a spot in the hellfire? everything u do, set a clear goal. review the goal, and decide whether it is worth doing. Listen to the lil voice in your head. u know the answer without having to think hard. Sometimes you give in to your heart.
They say listen to your heart, but the question is: is your heart telling you the right thing? or it's just trying to fool the life it belongs to? The safest way is to listen to your IMAN.
they are trying to fool you by saying: "you are still young", "life is short", "we all have a lil secret", "we are only human we make mistakes", "you'd miss out the fun". Fun? to what extent can fun bring you happiness? be careful of too much fun as it may take its toll on you.
aduh baru igt nak tulis fully melayu. ok alih bahasa. so cer nye, always ask yourself kenape, kenape, kenape nak kena buat something. kalau jawapannye tak tau, or for fun maka think twice. beristighfar lah berpuluh2 kali pun sbb itulah bisikan syaitan. sesungguhnya setiap amal itu bergantung kepada niat. maka sucikan niat, inshallah sucilah perbuatanmu.

Learn to say No.

Wallahualam.